fighters not fragile

I completely love this quote from Emma Watson (the famous Harry Potter character Hermoine)! "I feel like young girls are told this whole idea that they have to be this kind of princess and be all delicate and fragile and that’s bullshit. I identify much more with the idea of being a warrior and being a fighter. If I was going to be a princess, I would be a warrior princess, definitely." I don't know why but I feel its more true in our cultural setting that we being women are made rather vulnerable right from the very begining of our lives. We are expected to abide by certain rules and regulation and told to be more cautious. Honestly speaking, I have never been a law breaker neither i have any objection in being cautious but the thing that depresses me is that while raising a girl why both mother and father skip the motivaton part. Why not girls in our society are told that may be they are not physically as strengthened but in their minds and hearts we are more strengthened. This is where the power lies. We are warriors and fighter in our own way. We are as balanced creation of our Creator as our bothers are. Why we dont see the other side of flipped coin?

this too shall pass

It seem strange though but every word true "this too shall pass". This is a quote i heard long ago watching my favourite all time movie "my best friend 's wedding". There are few philosophies in life that we hear many times through many sources but never realize the depth of their meaning until the day comes when we live it in flesh and blood. After surpassing the annoying word thirty in my life and with (how little it may be) the first hand knowledge of so called practical life i can only say somethings are meant for you to experience no matter how hard you try to avoid them but in the end they are fruitful in their own way. We never remain children but on the contrary we never stay young either but every stage of life has its own role in our experience of life in totality. So considering the fact that somethings are meant to be there for you to experience, i want to share my own experience and philosophies about life itself, hoping it might help someone understand the dynamics of scenario they are facing in life and who knows may be i help someone realize "this too shall pass".